I couldn't take it anymore so I got involved (maybe I shouldn't have) but I texted him:
Neither J or Pam know I am texting u. But I had to say I used 2 think u were a great guy and admired u but after today I didn't think u would stoop so low as 2 hurt your children like u r because of money. I hope u don't live 2 regret it...
and I was shaking..... someone said to me today that since I have lost my weight I have gotten stronger and say what I feel and not such a push over..
Well an hour and a half later I go this:
If you had bothered to hear my side of the story you would understand. I didn't know bri was self hurting until J told me. She only tells what she wants to and changes it to make me sound bad. You two have made a choice of Pam. Bye.
So I replied:
No I did not make a choice of pam, and I did know u did not know about bri, what you may not know is that she is finding it hard 2 feed them on what she gets and now that the child support is less how is she 2 feed them now? They r also your responsiblity and ur r punishing the kids as well as pam and that is what I cannot understand. I don't want the friendship 2 end but one call in 6 months has not helped either. U give friendships up to easily. And.. this is not J's opinion and does not know I am writing 2 u.
My God what is wrong with the guy...
- Leaves his family
- Within six months is engaged and getting married in January 2008
- Refuses to pay mortgage on house and holiday property
- Was not paying child support for the first 3 months and now after been backed paid to them he has claimed for the sluts family and she gets $200 less a month
- Not wanting to see his daughter and now she is in counselling and self hurting herself
- His friendships have been put on the wayside
- He treating his ex like crap when he is the one that cheated.
How can this keep going? Is he wanting her to go bankrupt? If he does why would he do such a thing to his kids? Why do people do this? I can't understand the nastiness? can someone help me with this? I don't understand how anyone could change like that and I never thought I would be thinking bad thoughts about George EVER as I would have said I would have trusted him with my life and my family's life that is how much I thought about the guy.
I am distraught about it all.. I can just imagine what Pam is going through... it is not fair.
CMPlease help me to help her... what am I to do? She has no one.. .no famly it is hard.