OMG
I am shaking like a leaf right now.
Just had the bitch down the road (mother of Jack) fucken little shit of a child that took toys and is a right little nightmare..
Anyway she came to my door shouting at me and telling me that Quinn was pointing his finger at Jack (fat little sod) telling him off about something... his mother came to my door shouting saying that Quinn had done this and that he is not to talk to her child like that.
I said in a quiet tone voice.. that is fine and he will be dealt with and then on the way out she started again... then my blood boiled... and if anyone knows me I don't go at people I am a nice person... and so that was it...
I shouted (and the new family up the road heard me) I said REALLY LOUDLY "DON'T YOU DARE SHOUT AT ME.... I have said to you that my son will be talked to but I am not a little child that you talk to... I am an adult and I did not disagree with you and I told you that my son will be talked to. I DO NOT appreciate that you are shouting at me and talking to me like a child and do NOT do it again..." OMG I am shaking... OMG I am soooo shaking putting this on here.
I said to her do not fear our children WILL not play with him again.
I have told my kids that they are not to talk to Jack, they are not to play with him, and if he turns up then they are to walk away and not to say a word....
I am fuming right.... fucken angry and fucken shaking and I had to put it down.
The poor new people up the street were in their garage and looking down wondering what the hell was happening.... all they would have heard was me screaming at this woman telling her NEVER to speak to me like again.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Chubbymum
6 comments:
Awww chicky!! I so feel for you right now. As you know I have been dealing with a bitch this last few weeks treating me like a child. Why is it that some adults can't act like adults and it feels like we're back in high school again. The day I left high school I thought I was walking away from shit like that. But alas no it seems not.
Don't let this lady get to you tho. Easier said than done. i know I have gone into major depression over my incident, trying to tell myself that she wasn't worth my friendship. But it still plays with my brain.
Chin up chick ... you know in your gut you did the right thing and that's all that matters in the end.
oh how awful for you! well done for standing up for yourself, but i can just imagine how uptight you'll be feeling!
OH Mandy sorry u have had to go thru this...I so know what it is like and reading your words makes me angry for you too. Big hugs from me way down the cyber line
I can feel your anger from here mate!!!! I know just how this feels, as every mother does I'm sure.... Shame you had to yell at her too, cos it makes you look like a right nana too.... but you had RIGHT ON YOUR SIDE, and I hope your new neighbours realise that! I hope like hell you didn't end up with a stress headache from all the agro... I would have for sure!
I admire the way you stood up for your self, wish I could be that assertive, my husband always says karma is a great thing so she will gets her just desserts in time, keep smiling :)
Good on ya mate. Proud of you. Some bitch did the same to me only she didn't come to me, she came on my property and started yelling and swearing at my son. I was like a rocket out the door and eyeballed the bag and told her if she had a problem with my boy she talks me, and I deal with it. I'm his mother, not her. Makes you wild. I understand how you feel, I was so wild I was shaking.
Kids will always be kids.
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